Communication safety, reflectively
A calm read on the messages and profiles you're weighing up.
Dating Lens uses a five-color traffic light to surface signals about tone, boundaries, reciprocity, and power — so you can decide what to do next. It doesn't diagnose people, and nothing is stored by default.
Scan a message or profile
Analyze pressure, tone, reciprocity, and safety signals in what someone sent you.
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Scan a dating profile
Read someone's profile for entitlement, authenticity, and relational intent.
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Audit my own profile
See what works, what may misfire, and grounded rewrite ideas.
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Reader lens mode
See how your profile might read to ten different kinds of readers.
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Boundary reply generator
Get soft, firm, and exit replies for a tricky message.
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Learn the signals
A glossary of the 23 communication signals Dating Lens looks for.
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Five colors, five actions
green
Continue
yellow
Watch
orange
Slow down
red
Disengage
black
Prioritize safety